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Depersonalization/Derealization Disorder
Feeling detached from yourself or your surroundings may be frightening. The experience can be assessed and treated.
What is this disorder?
Depersonalization is a feeling of detachment from your body, thoughts, or emotions, as though you are observing yourself. Derealization is a sense that the surrounding world feels unreal, distant, or dreamlike.
In depersonalization/derealization disorder, these experiences persist or recur and cause significant distress or interference. You recognize that the sense of unreality is an experience you are having, rather than proof that the world has actually changed.
What might it feel like?
People may describe emotional numbness, feeling robotic, being separated from their body, or experiencing familiar surroundings as strange. Time may seem distorted, and memories may feel less connected to the present.
Brief experiences may occur during stress or exhaustion. A disorder is considered when the pattern is persistent or recurrent, disruptive, and not better explained by another condition or a substance.
What may contribute?
Possible contributors: Stress, panic, trauma-related symptoms, and depression may be associated with detachment. Cannabis and other substances may also trigger similar experiences. Some neurological conditions, including seizures, need consideration when symptoms or history suggest them.
The evaluation should explore the circumstances rather than assume that every episode has the same cause.
How is it assessed?
Describing the experience: Your provider asks what the experience feels like, when it started, how long it lasts, and whether you remain aware that it is a feeling of detachment. They review sleep, anxiety, physical symptoms, medications, and substance use.
Medical assessment: A physical examination or selected tests may be appropriate. Sudden confusion, a seizure, weakness, or a major change in awareness needs urgent medical assessment rather than being attributed to dissociation.
What treatments help?
Psychotherapy: Psychotherapy may help reduce distress, respond differently to the sensations, and address associated anxiety, depression, or stressful experiences. Treatment may include grounding and redirecting attention toward an ordinary activity.
Medication for other conditions: Medication may be used for a co-occurring condition. There is no medication approach that reliably resolves the core symptoms for everyone. Your provider should explain what a proposed treatment is intended to change.
What can you try between visits?
Gentle grounding: Practice a gentle grounding exercise when you are relatively calm: notice the room, place your feet on the floor, and describe a few objects you can see or feel. If a technique increases distress, stop and discuss another approach with your therapist.
Repeatedly checking whether you feel “real” may keep attention fixed on the sensation. A treatment plan may help you return attention to a task without demanding that the feeling disappear first.
Ask what other conditions need assessment and how progress will be measured. If episodes interfere with driving or another safety-sensitive activity, pause that activity and consult with your provider.
About this information
Educational handout; does not replace your prescription or your provider’s recommendations.